Tuesday, October 24, 2006

still here

actually ALOT has been going on around here lately. however every time i write something it feels frivolous. the person who died on saturday was my oldest sons, best friend's, brother. and my son is having a very hard time dealing with it. the worst thing is, i don't know how to make him feel better.

i can give him hugs and tell him it's ok to feel how he feels, but the timeline of events surrounding this persons death are complicated as well, for both my son and his friend. and my son feels almost guilty sometimes. not that either of them were in any way involved, it's just too much to put down here.

keep my son in your thoughts, and prayers if you are so inclined, as well as his friend's family. we have 2 nights of viewings ahead of us and a funeral on thurs. it's going to be a long week for him.

1 comment:

my bathroom is my sanctuary said...

Hi I seen you commented over at Heth's blog so I wanted to check you out. I had a friend that died when I was 11 and he was 13. I still miss him and wonder about him sometimes. It's hard. I think all you can do is support how he is feeling and pray. I'll pray for him and you and the friend's family. BLess you, Brenda.